要想获得成功，必须要在建立优点的基础上缩小缺点，也许你会期待该怎样去做。如果你的时间有点紧张，没有时间去关注别人的看法，你应该丢弃那些，把重点放在发展自己，而不是怎样改变别人的看法。
  Nobody Knows You Like Yourself.
  没有人比你更了解你自己。
  People can be arrogant in the fact that they tend to judge a person’s character within second of meeting them. We all generalise, we form assumptions, we create an opinion of people from the first moments of the first interaction, often inaccurate ones. The truth is, despite the lightening-quick opinions people form, nobody knows you like you do. You know your own strengths, your own weaknesses, your likes and dislikes more than anybody else in the world. Yes, people can be quick to judge. Are their perceptions of you at all accurate? It’s unlikely. Don’t concern yourself with them.
  人们是傲慢的,他们倾向于在第一次见面后判断一个人的性格。我们都一样,我们假设,我们创造一个观点从跟别人第一时刻的第一个互动,往往是不准确的。事实是,尽管人们闪电般的创造对于别人的看法,没有人知道你就像你做的一样。你比世界上其他任何人都知道自己的优点,自己的缺点,你的好恶。是的,人们可以快速的判断。他们对你的看法都是准确的吗?这是不太可能的。不要关心他们对你的看法啊。
  Confidence Isn’t Rooted In the Thoughts of Others.
  信心不是根植于别人的想法。
  How many times have you heard a confident person say that they get their confidence from the negative opinions of others? Not many, I bet. It’s usually the contrary. Confidence comes from realising the pettiness and inaccuracy of other people’s negative view of you and then ignoring them. Confident people know exactly what they lack and they get comfortable with it. They don’t need others to do it for them.
  你有几次听到一个自信的人说他们从别人的负面意见建立他们的信心?不是很多,我敢打赌。通常是相反的。信心来自于现实中的琐碎和别人对你的消极看法,然后忽视他们。自信的人知道他们缺乏什么,他们熟悉它。他们不需要其他人来为他们做这些。
  成功的人不会去关注别人怎么去看，他只会在乎自己怎么去做。同时也意味着你更加强大，更加全面的自己。不要在乎别人怎么去看，别人的观点不能否定你的一切。最重要的就是你要有一颗强大的内心，让别人对你的看法转换成前进的动力。
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